8 September 2017

Does my ex still love me or am I kidding myself?

Have you asked a good friend “Does my ex still loves me?” Well this really is one of those classic questions that people ask when they have not moved on from a relationship that is over. Chances are your friend has no answer for you that will help you and so you are still left wondering.
The truth is that a question like, “Does my ex still loves me?” can be a dangerous one to ask. This is because you might not get the answer you are looking for. As I have said, often times we will ask a question like that when we are still hung up on our exes and we are looking for reassurance and an OK that it is alright for us to go on and rescue the relationship. If this is what you are doing, make sure you are clear in your own mind that you could be setting yourself up for a heavy fall if your ex does not love you anymore.

With that said, there is a real truth in the fact that sometimes relationships do need space and air in order for them to resume and continue. People say the most hurtful and painful things to each other when they are arguing! And in temper they end up walking out and shouting “it’s over!” more times than it actually is.

What can follow in a situation like this is weeks and months of couples refusing to talk to each other and refusing to see each other, but deep down inside they are hurting with regret and longing that they have parted. If this is your situation then the answer to your question, “Does my ex still loves me?” is more than likely “Yes!”

​In a situation like this, there is probably still a chance that you can still find a way back together if just one of you takes that initial step and asks to meet up to talk.

Now the only way to know one way or the other if this is your situation or if you are deluding yourself, is not to ask a friend, but to make contact with your ex and ask him directly. Often times this simple step is not taken because one or both of you involved don’t want to lose face and make the first move. Well rather than sitting there wondering for days, weeks or more, make that first contact!

Arrange to meet somewhere neutral and after the initial pleasantries are over, work your question into the conversation. Be direct, be honest and get the answer from the only person who knows for sure. It really is the only way that you can stop yourself wasting time, longing and wondering what the real answer to your question “Does my ex still loves me?” really is!

​Leave a comment and share your thoughts about what you would do in this scenario!

Best of luck in love and life.

Pearly

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